Getting to know The Human Lens

Welcome to The Human Lens. Here, you can learn more about me, my journey to becoming a counsellor, and the unique approach I bring to our work together. My aim is to offer a warm, person-centred space where you feel truly understood.

My journey to counselling

Through many years of working alongside people experiencing mental health difficulties, crisis, homelessness, substance misuse and complex life circumstances, I began to notice something important: the people who were able to find their own answers, rather than being given them, often seemed to achieve more meaningful and sustainable change.

That drew me towards the psychological side of recovery. I wanted to understand what was happening beneath the surface and to work with people at a deeper level, at their pace, rather than deciding for them what their recovery should look like. That understanding ultimately led me to humanistic counselling and to creating The Human Lens.

Professional Background & Qualifications

I hold a BSc (Hons) in Humanistic Counselling from the University of Portsmouth and am an Individual Member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I also hold professional qualifications in Mental Health and Health & Social Care.

Alongside my counselling training, I bring more than 15 years of experience working with people across mental health, crisis support, homelessness, substance misuse and other complex life circumstances.

This combination of professional training and real-world experience shapes the way I work today: seeing the whole person, rather than defining someone by a diagnosis, difficulty or particular experience.

 

My counselling approach

My counselling style is humanistic, relational and holistic, led by the individual in front of me. I don’t see my role as giving advice, telling someone what they should do, or assuming that I know what is best for them. I’m interested in understanding the whole person and what may be sitting beneath the surface.

I also work with an awareness of the connection between mind and body. Sometimes our bodies can communicate something before we are able to put it into words, so where it feels appropriate, I may invite clients to notice physical sensations and bodily responses as part of exploring their experience.

I bring warmth and honesty to the therapeutic relationship while being comfortable working at depth. I believe meaningful change is more likely to be sustainable when it comes from within the person themselves, so I work at each client’s pace rather than providing ready-made answers.

What to expect from therapy

Understanding why we behave the way we do can be one of the most powerful parts of therapy. We can find ourselves repeating patterns or responding in ways that no longer help us, without necessarily understanding where those behaviours came from or what purpose they once served. I’m interested in exploring that with you.

When we begin to understand what sits beneath a behaviour, rather than simply trying to stop it, we can start to recognise and gently unpick the patterns that may now be causing difficulties in our lives. For me, therapy is not about telling someone how to change. It is about helping them understand themselves deeply enough that change can begin to come from within.

Ways to work with me

I offer several flexible options to suit your needs and preferences, ensuring you can access support in a way that feels comfortable and convenient for you.

Counselling is available in both English and Spanish.

Online counselling

Counselling from a space where you feel comfortable. Online sessions are available across the UK, offering flexibility without compromising the therapeutic relationship.

In-person counselling

Face-to-face counselling in a private and confidential setting in Southampton, the New Forest and surrounding areas, giving us a dedicated space to work together.

Walk & Talk Therapy

For some people, sitting face-to-face in a room doesn’t feel natural. Walk & Talk Therapy in the New Forest brings counselling outdoors, allowing movement and conversation to happen alongside one another.